Small talk is light, informal conversation people use when talking to others they don’t know very well. The goal of small talk is to gently establish rapport with someone new and get to know them better.
酬酢是人们在与不熟悉的人攀谈时使用的轻松、非正式的对话。闲聊的目的是暖和地与新同伙竖立融洽的关系并更好地认识他们。
Chatting with a person you don't know can be considered abrupt and even rude if you begin with specific personal questions about work, school, family, or other matters. Instead, successful conversations tend start broad with small talk and get more specific as the dialogue progresses.
若是从有关工作、学校、家庭或其他事项的具体小我问题起头不熟悉的人聊天,或者会被认为是唐突甚至卤莽的。相反,成功的对话往往从酬酢起头,跟着对话的进行而变得加倍具体。
How to start a small talk:
1. Compliment: Start the conversation by offering a genuine compliment. For example, you could say, "I really enjoyed your presentation earlier.
2. Shared Interest: Find common ground by mentioning a shared interest or experience.
3. Current Event: Bring up a current event or topic that is relevant to the situation.
4. Humor: Use humor to break the tension and create a more relaxed atmosphere.
若何起头酬酢:
1. 赞扬:经由朴拙的赞扬起头对话。例如 “我真的很喜欢你之前的演讲。“
2. 配合乐趣:经由说起配合的乐趣或履历来找到配合点。
3. 事势:提出与情形相关的事势或话题。
4. 诙谐:用诙谐来打破重要,营造更轻松的气氛。
Some more tips on making a small talk
5. Be a good listener: show others you are listening through body language
(e.g. eye contact, nodding, smile) and verbal cues
(e.g. “I see,” “Right,” “Mm-hm”)
6. Share something about yourself
(e.g. meaningful experience)
7. Make a Graceful Exit
(e.g. “Nice talking to you, see you later.”)
关于酬酢的更多技能
5. 做一个好的倾听者:经由肢体说话(例如眼神交流、颔首、微笑)和口头暗示(例如“我领略了”、“对”、“嗯嗯”)向他人展示你正在倾听。
6. 分享一些关于你本身的事情(例如,有意义的履历)
7. 优雅地竣事。(例如,“很愉快和你说话,再会。)